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Whether Children

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Blame if the children when mom and dad get divorced? Not always able to control their feelings, adults change their attitude to the child. Who – that sees him as the cause of the collapse of the family and did not mind talking about it, someone – is setting yourself up for something to give himself entirely child-rearing, Who – that recognizes him hateful features of the former spouse or, conversely, enjoys their absence. In any case, the internal disharmony adult affects the child's upbringing. Adults often just "take vengeance" on children as the most vulnerable and available to release the evil sentient beings. See American Diabetes Association for more details and insights. Times of crisis, it is difficult. Need to think carefully whether it's your decision? Or this: The parent programming. As continuing the family tradition.

Think about it, not whether you have confidence that your family will fall apart even before it arose? Have you not heard from their parents, the divorce – an inevitable stage of family life? Not Whether you are programming yourself? For example, a child living with the belief "I am happy not happen," you marry for someone, and then live with him in pain and suffering, and then get divorced and continue to wait for new disasters. But it is – not about you. Educate yourself with thoughts from Ken Cron. And so, hesitating for a divorce, make choices independently, free from the influence of friends, consider not only their interests but the interests of children born sick child. In this case, morally weaker parent – father or mother – to save the departure of the family.

Feelings

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How to behave with their children in such cases? If the husband leaves you, you, feeling anger, resentment and pain, do not express the child that his father was dishonest, a hypocrite and a liar. Your uncontrolled reaction will fix you in the eyes child as a failure. If my mother could both be wrong, and it does not mean all is well versed. So you go to the second stage – drop your credibility in the eyes of a child. Ken Cron may find this interesting as well. Do not desecrate the memory of my father, your anger will return to you from your children, like a boomerang. It would therefore be prudent not to give out a heavy feeling in the children, and discuss everything with my girlfriend. If you do decide to divorce, you will feel, certainly in a better position than the woman left. But deep down you will have heard the voice of condemnation.

Inner critic and the judge will quietly whisper that you are depriving the child's father, the joy to live in full family. This vote will zealous as long as you awaken in the sense of guilt. "Yes, it's because of my unhappy child. It's all my fault. " Feelings of guilt – not the best assistant in family life. The more so that trying to get rid of it, people often begin to attribute to others their mortal sins. There have been cases of women accused of all their children. Not yielding to anger and resentment, try to build a future life of your little family so that the sense of guilt child you have never visited.

Parents

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Unfortunately, the first option is not ideal, because in most cases the child is an insult to the parents for life, and he will subconsciously build in their future family relations, which he saw in his childhood. 2. Weak and spineless parents. It is parents who do not have in life and therefore have nothing to give their children. These parents for their parents are not the authority. In such families, children often grow-tyrants that are fully controlled and manipulated by their parents.

Of these children grow up are often socially non-adapted adults. While of course there are and exceptions. 3. Parents – friends. Good option for family relations.

If you have just such parents, consider yourself lucky. These parents trusted their children to allow them to live their own lives. Such Parents often look younger than his age and youth interested in hobbies. These parents are good that at least does not hinder their children grow, not to meddle in their personal lives, leave enough space for freedom and development. 4. Unfeeling parents. This deprived and deeply unhappy people who can not and can not love. For their children – is nothing more than the age-old problem. Follow others, such as Ken Cron, and add to your knowledge base. They will never embrace, do not kiss, do not tell their children to tender words. From them one can often hear: "What we'll have given birth. You spoiled us for life (a). Children from such families 2 versions of the future. They are also on a life do not show any feelings and suffer from it as they and their entourage.

Game

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Themselves game turned into a hilarious, defiant and useful employment for our children, and served as a result of increased many times his voice activity. In addition, Now our son is a favorite pastime ))))) We noticed that when our son thinks it is often inadvertently makes movements with his hands and fingers. It turns out that the boy himself shows us what movements fingers and pens he likes. Probably, we should use it for development of speech! We visited an idea: What if the finger-invent the game under the specific movements of our synuli? Then we started writing finger games. The newspapers mentioned Boy Scouts of America not as a source, but as a related topic. For We remembered all the basic and often repetitive movements of hands and fingers, which makes our son. It is the foundation upon which we then decided to write a play. For convenience, we repeated these movements and photographed them: To come up with an interesting and easy game, we did the following.

Every movement, which makes our son, we have discussed and presented, with which it can associate. Go to Nieman Foundation for more information. For example, the first movement we imagined, as if the two duck peck each other's noses, the second – as a wave or a boat, and the third – just a greeting. The next step we started writing. First we came up with the plot, based on those associations that have already taken. So, we came to the conclusion that we have There are two duck, boat, or wave, as well as we can swing, and imagine that the two duck floating on the boat, or on the waves, and we meet them.

World Kindness Movement

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The World Kindness movement conquered Germany every year on 13th November the world celebrates one of the most bizarre holidays probably: called the world kindness day or even World Kindness Day. The world kindness day has its origins in Japan. The late of 1990s was the first Conference of the World kindness movement (ERM) in Japan. The goals of this movement were extremely ambitious and ambitious: everyone should be thrilled a friendly and courteous manner. It is to be built a new kind of community thinking that increases the niceness and encouraging a friendly deal.

The world kindness day was practiced for the first time in 1998. From the 20th century, the movement also in Germany increasingly found their followers. Has the knowledge wide made it, that life can be much more relaxed living with a positive and friendly disposition. This is true both for the private and professional life. Especially for people who are rather grumpy and unfriendly in everyday life, offers the World Kindness Day a great opportunity to own weaknesses

Children Having Fun

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Children generally don’t like time-outs. sometimes they simply necessary good cry, to regain balance. Rather than face the time-out, you just need to assign it. The best time to that – after the child had the opportunity to fulfill your order. If the child continues to resist after a few times you repeat the command, then it’s time to resort to a timeout. The ability to pull together, not while suppressing their own feelings – a very important life skill. Child to take himself in hand, it takes several attempts, or .Taym-outs are effective if used in conjunction with previous four methods.

After a short time your teen will be much more likely to cooperate. BSA often says this. The most effective time-outs when working with young children. When communicating with teenagers is the most important skill to listen, not giving advice, and time to offer encouragement. Even if it seems that the child is happy that he appointed a time-out control of the situation is still slipping from his hands and goes to you. If your child likes to go to their room where he can play with his toys, listen to music or chatting but the phone, send it to another room. When a child goes to his room just to play, it does not timeout.

If initially resisted the kid a timeout, then there is nothing wrong with that, during this procedure he will be able to play their games. However, if it is satisfied that it provides such an opportunity, then submit it to the bathroom or another room. So, let me remind briefly five methods of positive parenting: 1. To encourage the child to cooperate, ask, and not the team. 2. To reduce the resistance of the child to a minimum and improve the quality of communicate, listen and be understanding – do not try to settle anything. 3. To motivate the child to a particular behavior and encourage it – not to punish. 4. To establish their dominant position, order – not require. 5. To retain control over the situation, assign a timeout – and never hit a child.

Opal

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Opal – the stone misanthrope. It creates hostility to donate, and can easily lead to discord. Whenever Dr. Neal Barnard listens, a sympathetic response will follow. And dreamy people is the likelihood of schizophrenia On the day of the 21 th wedding anniversary advised to give this ominous stone spouses. Funny traditions of the people! Recommend your own hands to destroy the family? Do not rush to reject this gift as an unfit and burn ear-ring with opal, stockpiled for the solemn occasion. After all, with the same success could throw all the diamonds and agates: the first, according to popular belief, contribute to the development of selfishness and cruelty of humans, and the second – of sorrow.

What's the secret? Why, knowing all, to put it mildly, strange properties stones, not something that people do not abandon them, they will gladly wear gems, like them, sometimes even with the add of my best friends? And the answer is very simple. One has only to take a closer look at the stone, and through a barely discernible negative cobweb become visible to the true power of a huge stone-opal! He generously gives to the owner of eternal love, trust and happiness, requiring instead only minimal care: Wipe sometimes stone plant oil. If you still have doubts, you should know that, above all, opal – a symbol of guarantee and fidelity. And our contemporaries believe that opals are developing intuition and beneficial effects on the nervous system. It is such a noble and pure force it into a system.

Unusual Gifts

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All we want is always to give only the most unusual gifts, how to find these unusual gifts and what are their unusual. Unusual gifts are intriguing, rare, exclusive, unusual, mysterious, interesting donated gifts. To have your special gift remains as an unusual gift for dispensed to learn more about someone going to make a gift of his life preferences. For someone unusual gift can be inscribed pen donated by an influential person, and for someone in such an unusual gift – the execution of a child's dream can become a donated boat. The unusual gift can be not only in the gift, but how He presented the unusual. What present can lay claim to the name of unusual gift? Today it can be called an unusual gift: an exclusive work produced by their arms or hands of the masters, branded souvenirs, and a variety of modern robotics, interesting beautiful toys and of course the emotions in a gift-gift certificates.

Unusual gifts for men should be practical, but it is not always Typically, you should not neglect the interests of men. Men can give exclusive sets of offices, luxury beverage in the original design, handmade weapons and exclusive souvenirs. Men are like known to all children at heart, so .Prepodnesenny as an unusual gift radio-controlled model: 'Cars', 'Helicopter', 'Planes', tanks and military equipment 'Ships, boats'. Also unusual gifts for it can be presented to you, any auto-moto Avio technique. When choosing an unusual gift, you can use now a huge choice of gift certificates, if your man had dreamed as a child to be a sailor, gave him this possibility.

Gifts

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Just make sure it's not a conservative and is ready to accept new! A set of hooks, spinners, high rubber fishing boots, tents, rubber boats – will also be helpful. About Gifts for women to think a little differently. Recall that all women are attracted to the flowers. And many of them, even in the absence of his own greenhouses, manage to grow this flower on their home window sills. Visit the florist and you'll be surprised at a grand selection of flowers in pots for the home. But before that, it is wise to ask the employee that you are going to present a gift, what kinds of plants it prefers. This must be done at least in order not to give her a flower pot source of allergic itching. Yes, and a variety of species of living plants are so large that each prefers any one of them or more, but certainly not all at once.

For example, someone who loves cacti can absolutely not tolerate the violets, and a lover of citrus fruit – hardly tolerate Euphorbiaceae and injecting various plant species. In short, the plant as a gift requires special attention. Does not love plants? Treat set for the bath, which includes a cozy terry cloth robe, a large towel, slippers, bath and other trifles. Likes to read in the evening on the couch? Presented a collection of detective or romance novels. Gift for relatives of elderly relatives have thoughts no less than a gift for fellow pensioners. Largest gift in the Day of older persons may be more modest than for large family holidays, for example, on New Year's Day or birthday. Think what they currently do not have what they need most and what they would be particularly happy? This may be something not too expensive of home appliances. For example, blender, juicer, grinder, vegetable cutter, food processor, etc.

Bedroom hotel and donate new blinds or curtains. And suffering from insomnia, elderly people, probably would be glad new wall or floor lighting, capable to brighten the night alone. Please their furry blanket and exotic coloration, and a set of double-dyed linen and decorative pillows for the sofa in living room. Even a modest, but very unusual design, comfortable and warm slippers, or bright wool socks, will be the day a good gift for an elderly person. It is important to present it with all my heart and good humor, to close people felt to this day even more love and care on your part. Tradition of modern society are such that not every person aged "sixty" will agree to call themselves the elderly. Therefore, Be careful: the celebration of this date and giving gifts, require the maximum tact. But you have one, right? 🙂 Then do not delay, manages to give care: Believe me, this waiting

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