How to behave with their children in such cases? If the husband leaves you, you, feeling anger, resentment and pain, do not express the child that his father was dishonest, a hypocrite and a liar. Your uncontrolled reaction will fix you in the eyes child as a failure. If my mother could both be wrong, and it does not mean all is well versed. So you go to the second stage – drop your credibility in the eyes of a child. Do not desecrate the memory of my father, your anger will return to you from your children, like a boomerang. It would therefore be prudent not to give out a heavy feeling in the children, and discuss everything with my girlfriend. If you do decide to divorce, you will feel, certainly in a better position than the woman left. But deep down you will have heard the voice of condemnation.
Inner critic and the judge will quietly whisper that you are depriving the child's father, the joy to live in full family. This vote will zealous as long as you awaken in the sense of guilt. "Yes, it's because of my unhappy child. It's all my fault. " Feelings of guilt – not the best assistant in family life. The more so that trying to get rid of it, people often begin to attribute to others their mortal sins. There have been cases of women accused of all their children. Not yielding to anger and resentment, try to build a future life of your little family so that the sense of guilt child you have never visited.